Archive for the ‘For Families’ Category

What age group do you think the Onionhead® products are best for?

Tuesday, June 1st, 2010

Onionhead® is great for all ages, from 1 to 101. 

However, with all our present problems concerning children, we want to reach them as young as possible. The faster we teach them emotional knowledge and social skills, the faster we will help them have a more loving and successful life.  Onionhead products are generally developed for “ages uo to 9″ (for children’s) and “ages 9 & up” (for teens and adults).

What are your suggestions as to how to use Onionhead® with preschool children?

Monday, April 26th, 2010

Pick up a feeling card and have them make the face, then say the feeling. Seth, a 2 year old child, did this all day long. He would pick up a card and mirror back the face. Then we moved into the exercise of telling him what the feeling meant every time he did this. He developed more emotional knowledge than any 2 year old we had ever seen.

How can I use Onionhead® with my family?

Monday, April 26th, 2010

Onionhead® is appropriate for every member of the family, no matter what the age. Take time to sit together and pull some cards. Then talk about what and why you feel this way. This creates an intimacy that would otherwise probably not occur. Use Onionhead® for problem solving, confusion, difficulties, and even in peaceful times. The magnets also serve as a quick and easy way to get to know each other better. Trust and honesty are birthed as a result.

How can Onionhead® help me with an angry teenager?

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

Anger is a reaction to another emotion. This is why teaching children a larger emotional spectrum is vitally important. Create a conflict resolution platform by separating the deck into the positive light and heavy emotions. Have the person pick three cards from the heavy deck, and then have them pick three cards from the light deck. The heavy emotions reflect the true underlying feelings. Using the three light emotions, have the person construct a peaceful solution to the problem.

I have a 15 year old who puts pressure on himself to do well in school. He does not want to talk to us about it. How can Onionhead® help?

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

For a 15 year old, the parent should always involve themselves. Each family member should pick two cards – one with the dominant hand (the hand with which you write) and one with the non-dominant hand. Go around the table and speak about these feelings and why you have them. Listen to your teenager – do not separate yourself from him. Treat him with respect as an equal.

I have a 9 year old child who is developmentally younger. How can I use Onionhead® with her?

Wednesday, March 17th, 2010

Use the products the same way you would use them with anyone. Have the child pick out the emotions that she is feeling. If the choices are heavy, ask her to show you what she would like to feel. Then ask if she can describe why she (or Onionhead®) is feeling the heavy emotion. Some children feel safer expressing how Onionhead® is feeling. Allow them to speak through him. If they are all light, ask the child to share. Do this daily, or twice daily, and you will surely get to know this child. Children love choosing the cards because they feel they are in charge of themselves; it has proven to be self-empowering.